𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘄𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝗼𝗹𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗱 (𝑶𝒓 𝒔𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆)

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Your house and your room are your sanctuaries, but also the only place where you feel safe.

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Nature as well. Wild nature.

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No one bothers you when you are in those places.

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No one questioning and attacking your choices, no one making you feel wrong for your ideas and the way you are growing.

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You feel that your energy is protected there, you are not drained at the end of the day.

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You can focus on your lessons, your dreams, your passions and you have all the time to do that.

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Until the evening approaches. And your day slows down.

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𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭.

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You miss your friends. They don’t accept and understand the person you are becoming.

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You miss having a group of like-minded people to share your thoughts, struggles, and victories with.

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You miss having a social circle and a support system, someone you know you can rely upon if you need.

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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐲

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You notice your thoughts:

“they don’t understand me, they don’t accept me”

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“I can’t open up because they wouldn’t get it and I would get attacked”

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“no way I go there, they always cause drama and I don’t want any of that in my life”

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“ I wonder if I will meet someone to walk with, that will understand me and accept me as I am”

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“I miss those nights watching the sky and laughing around the fire”

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“I miss the connection, the laughter, the lightness”

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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐚 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐯𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞.

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You built an armour around your heart, it’s for protection.

𝑇ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑖𝑠 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑏𝑒𝑙𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒.

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If they can’t come close, they can’t hurt me.

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But they still do. In your mind, in your thoughts.

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We are social beings, we all desire love, connection, purpose, depth, security, ease.

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And so are you. Even if you don’t want or you can’t admit it.

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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐨𝐧.

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Sure, they can’t come close. But you can’t leave either.

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𝑰𝒔 𝒊𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆? 𝑰𝒏 𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇-𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒔𝒐𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆?

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If your Light is free to move around it will attract people that resonate with you and imagine, your Light could even be a catalyst for old friends to embrace new ways and ideas.

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You can have new friends that are on your same journey, and you can have a new relationship with old friends, much deeper than has been ever before.

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What about you learn how to become so strong in yourself that you can let go of the armour, and you can let your light shine through?

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What about you learn to have and maintain powerful energy doesn’t matter where and who you are with?

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What about you learn to make your voice so strong and clear that setting boundaries and be heard won’t be a problem ever again?

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And what about you learn to do all this out of Self-Love? Out of Open-ness? Out of Calmness, Grace, and Understanding that we are all on a journey and just because they don’t know better, doesn’t mean you have to feel threatened or belittled

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𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐎𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐫𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐫?

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