𝐃𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤, 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦

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Another book you spent money on, that didn't solve your problem

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Every “guru” tells you to be present, to love yourself, to think positive.

You tried, it didn’t work.

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And here you are, buying yet another book on self-improvement.

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You devoured the Power of Now. You are currently on Untamed. Women running with the Wolves has a prime position on your nightstand.

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But you are not running anywhere. You feel trapped. You don’t feel unapologetic. You can’t breathe deeply and ‘positive vibes only’

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One day you are fierce, and you can conquer the world. You feel present, alive, everything seems going your way and your intuition is spot on. You feel complete.

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Sunday evening you start to feel the stress coming up because tomorrow you are back at work. They don’t understand you there. You are always the weird one, and maybe you stopped sharing your real thoughts with them. Avoiding the confrontation.

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You prepare the work clothes to wear in the morning, and you carefully choose the mask you are going to wear with it. A mask that you know you wear, but you don’t know how to do without it, even if it hurts you.

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Everything would be okay if they would be more aware, isn't it?

It would benefit them as well, you think.

If you could live in a more loving, understanding, kind and aware world, it would make your life so much easier.

You are here instead. And you are not happy about it.

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People often don’t know there is a more conscious way to be, a better way of communicating, a more loving and deeper way to connect with others. They do things as they always did, almost on autopilot. Without a question in their head.

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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐮𝐧𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝, 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐮𝐥𝐭.

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And if you are one of those that want everyone else to change so that the world can be exactly as desired, brace yourself. It ain’t going to happen.

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If you expect things to change without taking any action, good luck.

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You can buy as many books as you want. You can go to as many seminars, retreats, healing circles as you want.

Nothing will change until you start looking for answers inside.

No book has THE answer for all YOUR problems. They are mere tools.

And if you keep going like this, in a year time you will feel like you are at the same point. Living not authentically.

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𝐇𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲.

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According to cognitive neuroscientists, we are conscious in only 5% of our cognitive activity, while most of our behaviours, decisions, actions are up to 95% of unconscious brain activity.

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With all that unconscious activity, you cannot make any change unless you are able to recognize the patterns that are in place in your mind. Otherwise, you will only see the repetition of (uncomfortable) situations.

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Enough of books and videos. Connect with Your answers inside.

Understand your energetic and behavioural blueprint, and you will have peace at work, with your friends and even with your family.

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"The answer lies within ourselves. If we can't find peace and happiness there, it's not going to come from the outside." - Tenzin Palmo